1
Start with the Workbook
Do the assessment first. It tells you where you are and how to use everything else.
2
Open the Planner daily
After Modules 1–3 of the Workbook. The daily structure that holds what you discover.
3
Use the Clarity Deck anytime
When you need perspective. Draw 1, 3, or 5 cards — before or after journaling.
Your three tools
1
Open the Workbook
sosassy.online/startoverworkbook/
Bookmark this link the moment it opens. Your writing saves automatically — as long as you return to the same link on the same device.
How to use it
1Start with the Where Are You Now assessment (10 min). It personalizes your path.
2Work through Modules 1–3 before opening the Planner. These give you the foundation.
3Don't skip the module checkpoints — the most important things surface there.
4Start the 30-Day Quiet Reset Plan only after finishing all 5 modules.
5Export to PDF regularly — clearing your browser cache clears your saved entries.
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Open the Planner
sosassy.online/startoverplanner/
Bookmark this link too. No fixed dates — start any day, any season. It doesn't expire.
How to use it
1Open the Daily Page each morning — or whenever you need to reset mid-day.
2The energy check-in (exhausted / okay / energized) shapes what the day asks of you. Don't skip it.
3Use the Weekly Reset on Sunday evening or Monday morning. 15 minutes.
4Open the Money Check-In when anxiety about finances hits — not on a schedule.
5The support pages (Reframe, Affirmations, Letter) are for hard moments. Not scheduled.
3
Open the Clarity Deck
sosassy.online/start-over-the-clarity-deck/
Bookmark this link. Unlimited readings — draw whenever you need perspective. No login required.
How to use it
1Answer the context questions first — where you are, what area needs clarity, how you feel. Don't skip them.
2Choose your spread: 1 card (quick check-in), 3 cards (past · now · next), 5 cards (full picture).
3For 3 and 5-card draws, read the combined narrative first — before the individual cards.
4Use Bonus 1 (Question Library) to choose a specific question before drawing — it sharpens the reading significantly.
5"Draw Again — Same Context" lets you explore the same situation from a different angle without refilling the form.
How to use the three tools together
A suggested order — not a rule. Trust what you need.
Workbook assessment — first thing
Open the Workbook and complete the Where Are You Now assessment before anything else. 10 minutes. It tells you where to begin.
Workbook Modules 1–3
Naming the Exhaustion, What You're Carrying, Boundaries Without Guilt. These three give you the foundation. Work through them before opening the Planner.
Clarity Deck — anytime from here
Use the Clarity Deck when you feel stuck mid-module or need perspective on something that surfaced. Use Bonus 1 to pick a specific question first.
Open the Planner — daily from Module 1 onward
The Workbook and Planner run in parallel. The Workbook does the deep work; the Planner holds the day. You'll notice your Workbook insights giving clearer Planner answers.
Workbook Modules 4–5 + 30-Day Plan
Finish Reclaiming Clarity and A Gentle Reset when ready. The 30-Day Plan starts after all 5 modules — it's the bridge to implementation, not a replacement for the deep work.
Use the 12-Month Journal all year
Bonus 2 pairs with the Clarity Deck over time. Each month has a theme, journal prompts, and a card draw question. It tracks your patterns across the year — use it on the first of each month.
Technical details — all three tools
Works on Phone, tablet, or computer
Internet Required to access the pages
Autosave Your device only — nothing uploaded
PDF export Yes — via browser print
Login Not required for any tool
Access Lifetime — bookmark all links
Language 100% English
Dates Planner has none — start any day
If your browser shows a security warning: all tools are hosted at sosassy.online. Some browsers flag .online domains — this is standard for newer extensions, not a security issue. The site is SSL-encrypted. Click "proceed" or "continue anyway" to access your content.
A personal note
Dear woman holding all three tools,
You didn't just buy a digital product. You made a decision to take yourself seriously — your exhaustion, your clarity, your daily life, your capacity to start over.
That decision took something. I know that.
I built this ecosystem in the middle of my own collapse. I tested every module, every prompt, every daily check-in when I had no energy left to perform wellness for anyone. What stayed — what actually helped — is what you now have in your hands.
Use it when you need it. Put it down when you don't. Come back when life gets loud again.
There is no right way to do this. There is only the honest way.
I hope you find something true in these pages.
— Dani Tesolin, São Paulo